Building the self esteem of a person is a process that should be started as soon as the person knows the difference between right and wrong; self esteem is too vital to leave off till the child becomes a teenager.... it may be too late by then.
We all need to learn how to develop our own high esteem in life, we are not born with it, and neither are our children.
Parents have a duty to their kids to make them feel good about themselves to the extent that they become productive members of the society...any attempt to shelve this duty can lead to an unproductive dysfunctional adult who may cause more harm than good in the society.
The best gift you could ever give your child is to believe in his/her and his/her abilities or talents because eventually, that confidence will help your child carve out a definite identity for his or herself.
Self affirming words have been known to give that much needed boost in slumped spirits.....teaching your children to say and believe, good things about themselves enhances their confidence and equips them to be more decisive in issues that affect them.
You should know that the human ego is not present only in adults; children also have an ego that needs to be stroked with the utmost wisdom to bring out the best of the child.
Children who suffer from a poor self image about themselves eventually proceed to fail at everything they touch; their careers, relationships and dreams, while those that have a high self image are just the opposite, they excel in everything they do.
Mentally handicapped kids who have a learning defect also need to feel good about themselves...in fact, they need more than an extra boost in their level of self confidence than other normal children do....some kids with this defect have been known to become well because of their parents belief in them.
Building self esteem can be a fun game instead of a nerve racking your child doing things together can make life interesting and help your child know that you value his/her opinions.
You should be able to encourage your children in what you observe they are naturally good at; enroll your child in a music school if you notice that he/she has a flair for music...building on the existing abilities of your children is one way to make them believe in themselves.
We all need to learn how to develop our own high esteem in life, we are not born with it, and neither are our children.
Parents have a duty to their kids to make them feel good about themselves to the extent that they become productive members of the society...any attempt to shelve this duty can lead to an unproductive dysfunctional adult who may cause more harm than good in the society.
The best gift you could ever give your child is to believe in his/her and his/her abilities or talents because eventually, that confidence will help your child carve out a definite identity for his or herself.
Self affirming words have been known to give that much needed boost in slumped spirits.....teaching your children to say and believe, good things about themselves enhances their confidence and equips them to be more decisive in issues that affect them.
You should know that the human ego is not present only in adults; children also have an ego that needs to be stroked with the utmost wisdom to bring out the best of the child.
Children who suffer from a poor self image about themselves eventually proceed to fail at everything they touch; their careers, relationships and dreams, while those that have a high self image are just the opposite, they excel in everything they do.
Mentally handicapped kids who have a learning defect also need to feel good about themselves...in fact, they need more than an extra boost in their level of self confidence than other normal children do....some kids with this defect have been known to become well because of their parents belief in them.
Building self esteem can be a fun game instead of a nerve racking your child doing things together can make life interesting and help your child know that you value his/her opinions.
You should be able to encourage your children in what you observe they are naturally good at; enroll your child in a music school if you notice that he/she has a flair for music...building on the existing abilities of your children is one way to make them believe in themselves.
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