It's funny, all through the many many years of human evolution, we've never lost the ability to have our hearts broken, even when that's the one thing that sets us back. We think falling in love is something Huge that will change our life forever. Probably so, you'll have marriage, have a baby (not in particular order; most of the time it in reverse) and make compromising decisions.
When you reach mid twenties, pressure is starting to mount. "When are you going to settle", they always ask? It is as if our idea of 'settling down' always involve about finding a partner, marriage, house and children. You have to handle with questions from parents and relatives during reunions.
If you are not in a relationship at that time, you must bring a date. Why is it hard to tell them that concept of settling down is not for everyone? That having your heart broken several times made you decide to better be alone. But not lonely. No. But they assume you are lonely so they try to put you up in several blind dates.
Setting you up on dates or asking single friends around to talk to you does not work. Modern fairytale ending of forever after is no longer apt in your case. A woman no longer waits for the Prince Charming to bring her happiness. Living happily ever after can come even by refusing to wait for him-or even actually rejecting him because the Prince is a faux.
It is those who persist in hoping for Prince Charming who are setting up for disillusionment and unhappiness. Because you set up expectations and when he fails, you'll be greatly disappointed. Falling in love and finding that someone is not found in speed dating sites or blind dates they set up. It's just a choice. Maybe true love is a decision.
When you reach mid twenties, pressure is starting to mount. "When are you going to settle", they always ask? It is as if our idea of 'settling down' always involve about finding a partner, marriage, house and children. You have to handle with questions from parents and relatives during reunions.
If you are not in a relationship at that time, you must bring a date. Why is it hard to tell them that concept of settling down is not for everyone? That having your heart broken several times made you decide to better be alone. But not lonely. No. But they assume you are lonely so they try to put you up in several blind dates.
Setting you up on dates or asking single friends around to talk to you does not work. Modern fairytale ending of forever after is no longer apt in your case. A woman no longer waits for the Prince Charming to bring her happiness. Living happily ever after can come even by refusing to wait for him-or even actually rejecting him because the Prince is a faux.
It is those who persist in hoping for Prince Charming who are setting up for disillusionment and unhappiness. Because you set up expectations and when he fails, you'll be greatly disappointed. Falling in love and finding that someone is not found in speed dating sites or blind dates they set up. It's just a choice. Maybe true love is a decision.
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