Love, big Love is not about the sparks and lightning bolts. Sometimes it is a choice. It is about making decision. You have to make to take a chance with somebody. To give into that somebody. Without worrying whether they'll give anything back. Or if they're gonna hurt you, or if they really are the one. Love is not just about something occurring to you. It is something you have to choose too.
It is a decision of weighing heart and mind. The pumping of the heart, the giddy feeling is not enough but also the practicality of things. Love is a compromise, after all. Moving in? He is an insomniac, you are an early riser. He hates the beach. You love the sun. How can you compromise? After all of the pumping heart machine stage, more things are coming wherein you have to make big decisions.
They say, having a relationship with that guy takes only you and him. How about your family and friends? If they don't like the guy for you, you have to think again. Maybe you have been blinded by your too much emotions that you can no longer see his lapses that your family and friends see. And you have to review real hard, is it really worth it?
If you are having doubts, then think again. Try to step back and you'll see. After all, the mind is put above the heart to give it some rationality in times when heart is overwhelmed by the feelings. When you step back, that is when you can see the entire perspective.
Love is something that overflow, freely given but takes responsibility and mature decisions for it to be sustained. When you are finally able to balance this, utter happiness will come your way whatever decision it might be.
It is a decision of weighing heart and mind. The pumping of the heart, the giddy feeling is not enough but also the practicality of things. Love is a compromise, after all. Moving in? He is an insomniac, you are an early riser. He hates the beach. You love the sun. How can you compromise? After all of the pumping heart machine stage, more things are coming wherein you have to make big decisions.
They say, having a relationship with that guy takes only you and him. How about your family and friends? If they don't like the guy for you, you have to think again. Maybe you have been blinded by your too much emotions that you can no longer see his lapses that your family and friends see. And you have to review real hard, is it really worth it?
If you are having doubts, then think again. Try to step back and you'll see. After all, the mind is put above the heart to give it some rationality in times when heart is overwhelmed by the feelings. When you step back, that is when you can see the entire perspective.
Love is something that overflow, freely given but takes responsibility and mature decisions for it to be sustained. When you are finally able to balance this, utter happiness will come your way whatever decision it might be.
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