We all want to move forward in our lives, letting go of the past. Stagnation on the outside means stagnation on the inside. Letting go of our defunct ways is the key.
We use potions and pills to help us eliminate and let go of toxins from the bowel and detox the body but we're still very good at holding on emotionally. We like our old behaviour patterns. They're familiar and comforting. We're frightened by what might happen if we let go? Will we survive? Those old patterns have served us well in the past but what was it that initiated the pattern? Let's explore the word "behaviour pattern". The very phrase conjures up something we have created so we "know" how we should behave. Looking at habits is generally a good place to start.
If we are truly conscious then we respond differently to each situation, we don't have to call on our memory to ask how we usually react. Often a pattern was set by a traumatic event in the past, an event that isn't relevant but the "baby" or "child" part of us is still feeling unsafe and has to call on a tried and tested way of coping with a similar situation.
These old patterns no longer serve us. Not if we are living in the present. There's no need to bring our past with us, but that "little one" who is holding onto that pattern will always be a part of who we are. We want to bring our little one with us but not the unpleasant event. Search out the safety in your life, today. Know that your loved ones are around you; know what your resources are. When you can identify those feelings of anxiousness, look for something that makes you feel safe. Feel that safety, name the feeling, hug the baby part of you, apologise for what happened and let go.
Lets get back to that detox as we have much to let go of. Master Herbalist Bachir Aboukhazaal has made his family herbs available. These originated from Ancient Phoenician recipes that are many hundreds of years old.
If we don't do this work, those old, familiar patterns that have long out-lasted their purpose remain with us forever, but the event that caused them hasn't yet been discharged. A new-born baby cannot voice pain and trauma. Until recently it was just accepted that babies did not feel pain. Circumcision operations were not performed using local painkillers. Can you imagine any person putting a newly-born through this primitive and unnecessary procedure? Yes, of course, every father who has had this done to him! Our parents have their own wounds to handle. They were children once as well with their own fears. Children tend to intensify the parents' wounds and therefore the cycle continues until someone says "enough". When trauma continues unacknowledged und undischarged we remain in our sympathetic nervous systems, probably for the remainder of our lives.
Without truly letting go, we will only heal at a shallow level. This explains why the supplement market is so enormous. Those pills keep us feeling happy at that superficial level. So do drugs like Valium and Prozac. They don't heal. They only work when you're taking them, and then they dump their toxins in the liver, making your body work overtime. Without safety and good resources we will only live at a superficial level. Make today the day you decide to live your life.
When we can balance the nervous system, everything in our lives can change. Living in a settled place within the body allows miracles to happen and our lives to flow more easily. When we are in 'active alert', we can't even see what is happening around us that's good, we only look out for the danger. But the danger is only a perception in out minds, only an assumption that many greedy people have used for their own gain. If we're not awake other people will take advantage of us. Active alert doesn't mean awake, it only means looking for danger. 'Awake' means aware and enlightened. It implies conscious, calm and in harmony with the planet we live on. It means knowing what is happening in your body, and not making rational, logical choices from the head. It means listening to our body and one another. It means love.
We use potions and pills to help us eliminate and let go of toxins from the bowel and detox the body but we're still very good at holding on emotionally. We like our old behaviour patterns. They're familiar and comforting. We're frightened by what might happen if we let go? Will we survive? Those old patterns have served us well in the past but what was it that initiated the pattern? Let's explore the word "behaviour pattern". The very phrase conjures up something we have created so we "know" how we should behave. Looking at habits is generally a good place to start.
If we are truly conscious then we respond differently to each situation, we don't have to call on our memory to ask how we usually react. Often a pattern was set by a traumatic event in the past, an event that isn't relevant but the "baby" or "child" part of us is still feeling unsafe and has to call on a tried and tested way of coping with a similar situation.
These old patterns no longer serve us. Not if we are living in the present. There's no need to bring our past with us, but that "little one" who is holding onto that pattern will always be a part of who we are. We want to bring our little one with us but not the unpleasant event. Search out the safety in your life, today. Know that your loved ones are around you; know what your resources are. When you can identify those feelings of anxiousness, look for something that makes you feel safe. Feel that safety, name the feeling, hug the baby part of you, apologise for what happened and let go.
Lets get back to that detox as we have much to let go of. Master Herbalist Bachir Aboukhazaal has made his family herbs available. These originated from Ancient Phoenician recipes that are many hundreds of years old.
If we don't do this work, those old, familiar patterns that have long out-lasted their purpose remain with us forever, but the event that caused them hasn't yet been discharged. A new-born baby cannot voice pain and trauma. Until recently it was just accepted that babies did not feel pain. Circumcision operations were not performed using local painkillers. Can you imagine any person putting a newly-born through this primitive and unnecessary procedure? Yes, of course, every father who has had this done to him! Our parents have their own wounds to handle. They were children once as well with their own fears. Children tend to intensify the parents' wounds and therefore the cycle continues until someone says "enough". When trauma continues unacknowledged und undischarged we remain in our sympathetic nervous systems, probably for the remainder of our lives.
Without truly letting go, we will only heal at a shallow level. This explains why the supplement market is so enormous. Those pills keep us feeling happy at that superficial level. So do drugs like Valium and Prozac. They don't heal. They only work when you're taking them, and then they dump their toxins in the liver, making your body work overtime. Without safety and good resources we will only live at a superficial level. Make today the day you decide to live your life.
When we can balance the nervous system, everything in our lives can change. Living in a settled place within the body allows miracles to happen and our lives to flow more easily. When we are in 'active alert', we can't even see what is happening around us that's good, we only look out for the danger. But the danger is only a perception in out minds, only an assumption that many greedy people have used for their own gain. If we're not awake other people will take advantage of us. Active alert doesn't mean awake, it only means looking for danger. 'Awake' means aware and enlightened. It implies conscious, calm and in harmony with the planet we live on. It means knowing what is happening in your body, and not making rational, logical choices from the head. It means listening to our body and one another. It means love.
About the Author:
Phylipa Dinnen is a mother of four children a
Human Design Professional and a Practitioner of Pre and Peri-Natal Birth Trauma.
Together with her husband Graeme they run Resources For Life, a natural health business in Chichester, West Sussex. For more information on
Ancient Herbal Remedies for halpinmg to deal with trauma click below:Maestro a 550 year old formula for cleansing the spleen, kidney and liver. Inner Calm a 350 year old formula for calming the body and supporting the adrenals
Human Design Professional and a Practitioner of Pre and Peri-Natal Birth Trauma.
Together with her husband Graeme they run Resources For Life, a natural health business in Chichester, West Sussex. For more information on
Ancient Herbal Remedies for halpinmg to deal with trauma click below:Maestro a 550 year old formula for cleansing the spleen, kidney and liver. Inner Calm a 350 year old formula for calming the body and supporting the adrenals
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