How many hours do you spent in the internet? How many chat rooms do you visit? How many friends you don't really know have you accepted in facebook and chatted with them at some point? Do you flirt online? Is it bad for your life?
If you think that your involvement in online sexual interactions may be crossing the line of "acceptability" in your relationship, it's time to take an honest look at your behaviour. Start by asking yourself, "Will be my spouse be upset about my spending many hours a night on the telephone or computer talking to somebody while utilizing sexually suggestive language?" If the answer were yes, then they probably would have the same discomfort with your using the Internet in the same manner. It's NOT the medium of communication that's relevant here; it's the effect that such a detour from your primary relationship can have.
If your spending many hours of the day or night having cybersex, or flirting, you cannot have time for those same behaviours within your primary relationship. There are undoubtedly many people who occasionally flirt while online (about 22 percent of general users report cyberflirting). There's probably little harm in this, provided it doesn't interfere with your marriage or relationship .
This type of cyberflirting is similar to flirting that goes on at work (barring any sexual harassment issues) and is a natural part of human interaction. However, one should always be mindful of the possible misinterpretation that flirting can have. This is especially true online as you're missing some of the more typical social cues that reinforce social boundaries and imply clear limits.
And when you do this, always ask yourself, Why am I doing this? What will my spouse feel when she/he founds out? If you go on, then be ready to grab the risk in your relationship.
If you think that your involvement in online sexual interactions may be crossing the line of "acceptability" in your relationship, it's time to take an honest look at your behaviour. Start by asking yourself, "Will be my spouse be upset about my spending many hours a night on the telephone or computer talking to somebody while utilizing sexually suggestive language?" If the answer were yes, then they probably would have the same discomfort with your using the Internet in the same manner. It's NOT the medium of communication that's relevant here; it's the effect that such a detour from your primary relationship can have.
If your spending many hours of the day or night having cybersex, or flirting, you cannot have time for those same behaviours within your primary relationship. There are undoubtedly many people who occasionally flirt while online (about 22 percent of general users report cyberflirting). There's probably little harm in this, provided it doesn't interfere with your marriage or relationship .
This type of cyberflirting is similar to flirting that goes on at work (barring any sexual harassment issues) and is a natural part of human interaction. However, one should always be mindful of the possible misinterpretation that flirting can have. This is especially true online as you're missing some of the more typical social cues that reinforce social boundaries and imply clear limits.
And when you do this, always ask yourself, Why am I doing this? What will my spouse feel when she/he founds out? If you go on, then be ready to grab the risk in your relationship.
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