Let us say you have been hanging around (okay, dating, if you want) with a girl for sometime already and you are already quite sure that you want to take the relationship to the next higher level. The catch? She is not really sure if that is also what she wants. She probably likes you a lot, but surely, that is not good enough because for all you know, she might be "liking" a lot of guys, but is not taking anyone seriously. So what you want is to make her see you differently from the many guys she "likes". What should you do now?
Be open about how you really feel for her. Even if you have already told her about your feelings for her in the past, the fact that you want to bring the relationship to new heights means the feelings have become stronger and deeper. She probably does not know that yet. So, be vocal about it to her and take the risk of asking her if she feels the same way towards you. You will never know the truth if you just keep your thoughts and feelings to yourself. And who knows? She just might be waiting for you to tell her about it.
Connect with her through touch without acting like a maniac. For instance, you two are crossing a street, hold her by her elbow and guide her while walking. Or, if she is carrying a lot of stuff in her hands, offer to carry her bag and lightly brush her hands with yours. These simple actions are guaranteed to make her feel some electricity flow between the two of you. And if you keep at it without being a jerk, you might be hearing the precious "I love you" sooner than you expect.
Give her a list of her attributes that you find endearing. A list, you say? You do not have to write them down and give it to her, but you can tell her about her qualities that you find cute about her: how she tosses her hair when she greets people, her pursed lips when she is in deep thought, how she bats her eyelashes repeatedly when she is excited. She is probably not even aware that she does these things, but surely, she will appreciate it a lot that you noticed all them.
If you have to be away from her for a long time, either call her or send her messages through email. Thoughtfulness will bring you a long way and you do not even have to spend too much to let her know how thoughtful you are. A simple text or email message is enough to send that message. You can even add a bonus to that. Why not try calling her so that you two can hear each other's voices? That would be even better as you can hear the longing in each other's tone.
Be open about how you really feel for her. Even if you have already told her about your feelings for her in the past, the fact that you want to bring the relationship to new heights means the feelings have become stronger and deeper. She probably does not know that yet. So, be vocal about it to her and take the risk of asking her if she feels the same way towards you. You will never know the truth if you just keep your thoughts and feelings to yourself. And who knows? She just might be waiting for you to tell her about it.
Connect with her through touch without acting like a maniac. For instance, you two are crossing a street, hold her by her elbow and guide her while walking. Or, if she is carrying a lot of stuff in her hands, offer to carry her bag and lightly brush her hands with yours. These simple actions are guaranteed to make her feel some electricity flow between the two of you. And if you keep at it without being a jerk, you might be hearing the precious "I love you" sooner than you expect.
Give her a list of her attributes that you find endearing. A list, you say? You do not have to write them down and give it to her, but you can tell her about her qualities that you find cute about her: how she tosses her hair when she greets people, her pursed lips when she is in deep thought, how she bats her eyelashes repeatedly when she is excited. She is probably not even aware that she does these things, but surely, she will appreciate it a lot that you noticed all them.
If you have to be away from her for a long time, either call her or send her messages through email. Thoughtfulness will bring you a long way and you do not even have to spend too much to let her know how thoughtful you are. A simple text or email message is enough to send that message. You can even add a bonus to that. Why not try calling her so that you two can hear each other's voices? That would be even better as you can hear the longing in each other's tone.
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