So, you are just stepping outside with your new dress suit when the woman of your dreams walk by. What do you do? Do you stand transfixed watching her or do you walk up to her and strike up a conversation? If you are like most guys, the thought of approaching an attractive stranger, and actually conversing with her, is just too difficult to even consider.
This don't have to be so. Perhaps you have seen Hitch before, huh? Will Smith knew exactly how to be that charismatic knight in shining armour so many women dream about, and although he fumbled a bit at first with his dream girl, he knew exactly what he needed to do to show off his charismatic style.
While saying "Hello" is a good first step, let's take a good look at a few conversation tips you can take advantage of that will allow you to come off as charming, rather than slimy, when speaking to a woman you are interested in.
How To Converse With Women
Be Sincere With Your Compliments- Most men have learned to open their conversation with votes of compliment. You need to understand, however, that while standing in front of her with your men's suit, the last thing you'd like to say is "You have a pretty smile". Instead of using a line she probably hears ten times a day, use a unique and sincere compliment about what she says, such as "I never thought of that! You've made a really smart point"
Why Not Nod?- One of the simplest ways to show a women that you are paying attention to what she is saying is by nodding. Doing so; you are not only improving the affinity between the women and you but also encouraging her to speak further. Consider for a moment how a politician works a room. They create a strong connection with everyone they come in contact with starting with a warm handshake, a pleasant smile and nods. You can do the same thing.
If you really want to sweep her off her feet, don't start the conversation by pushing her buttons; this way, you will burn your bridge before you even have the chance to do that. Remember what your mom always told you about conversations: avoid religion and politics.
Vary The Conversation- One of the biggest worries guys have when they consider starting a conversation with women is having nothing to talk about. This problem can be easily solved, though by taking advantage of your interests and hers. Like to play sports? Does she have any brothers or sisters? Are you from the city or did you grow up in the country? By changing the topic every now and then, you can keep the conversation going and prevent it from becoming stale.
Making a memorable first impression on your dream is more than wearing a snazzy black suit and a tie. While you should always look the part of a successful and charismatic man, you should act the part as well. These tips will help you to show off your charisma while sweeping your dream girl off her feet.
This don't have to be so. Perhaps you have seen Hitch before, huh? Will Smith knew exactly how to be that charismatic knight in shining armour so many women dream about, and although he fumbled a bit at first with his dream girl, he knew exactly what he needed to do to show off his charismatic style.
While saying "Hello" is a good first step, let's take a good look at a few conversation tips you can take advantage of that will allow you to come off as charming, rather than slimy, when speaking to a woman you are interested in.
How To Converse With Women
Be Sincere With Your Compliments- Most men have learned to open their conversation with votes of compliment. You need to understand, however, that while standing in front of her with your men's suit, the last thing you'd like to say is "You have a pretty smile". Instead of using a line she probably hears ten times a day, use a unique and sincere compliment about what she says, such as "I never thought of that! You've made a really smart point"
Why Not Nod?- One of the simplest ways to show a women that you are paying attention to what she is saying is by nodding. Doing so; you are not only improving the affinity between the women and you but also encouraging her to speak further. Consider for a moment how a politician works a room. They create a strong connection with everyone they come in contact with starting with a warm handshake, a pleasant smile and nods. You can do the same thing.
If you really want to sweep her off her feet, don't start the conversation by pushing her buttons; this way, you will burn your bridge before you even have the chance to do that. Remember what your mom always told you about conversations: avoid religion and politics.
Vary The Conversation- One of the biggest worries guys have when they consider starting a conversation with women is having nothing to talk about. This problem can be easily solved, though by taking advantage of your interests and hers. Like to play sports? Does she have any brothers or sisters? Are you from the city or did you grow up in the country? By changing the topic every now and then, you can keep the conversation going and prevent it from becoming stale.
Making a memorable first impression on your dream is more than wearing a snazzy black suit and a tie. While you should always look the part of a successful and charismatic man, you should act the part as well. These tips will help you to show off your charisma while sweeping your dream girl off her feet.
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